Motif gambar : Saja nak tunjuk i pemandu berhemah pakai seat belt ketika memandu sambil camwhore. -.-"

Kalau cakap pasal pemandu wanita mesti selalu dengar stereotype ni.

" Hek eleh, patutlah lembab. Perempuan yang bawak"

" Oii, tak bagi signal, perempuan la tu"

" Tengok tu perempuan bawak, ikut rapat-rapat. Cucuk bro jangan tak cucuk!"

I mean, really?? Give us some credit lah.

I ada beberapa pengalaman di-harass oleh pemandu-pemandu lelaki dan mat rempit especially kalau drive sorang diri.

Pengalaman 1.

Ini kes "aku lelaki alpha male yang pantang dicabar". Masa nak keluar ke pekan Pilah, I overtook this one motor pastu agaknya ego lelaki darah panas baru nak up tak boleh kene potong, dia pintas kereta i balik lalu tunjukkan perangai babun. I mean, perlu ke kau nak buat zig zag, nak slowkan motor kau pastu nak himpit-himpit kereta orang only because i overtake your motor? Please.

Jadi tragedi ini berakhir di Balai Polis. Padan muka kau.

Pengalaman 2.

Ini perangai jenis apa pun i taktau lah, ingat jalan raya gelanggang Raja lawak ke? I was on a highway to Kl, and then this one car penuh dengan lelaki lalu sebelah kereta i. Lepastu driver dia keep showing me signs, waving at me tunjuk-tunjuk kereta i. I panicked a little bit, takut lah kalau tayar pecah ke, kereta berasap ke and maybe my panic expression was too obvious, rupa-rupanya mereka saja je nak buat lawak bodoh ke apa, satu kereta bantai gelak kat i.

I was like -_____-" apa motif kau buat perangai zaman batu ni? Just imagine masa driver tu tengah pandang-pandang kereta sebelah, tak pandang depan, pastu terlanggar kereta depan. You put yourself and others in danger. Don't be so oblivious, okay?

Pengalaman 3

Ini satu lagi perangai, tak sabar. Okay, i admit, female drivers ni memang kadang-kadang bawak kereta terlebih sopan slow kadang-kadang i pun stress. Maybe baru dapat lesen ke, phobia bawak laju ke, bawak baby pastu baby dia tengah menangis ke? Tak pernah ke terfikir semua tu?

Pernah sekali, hanya disebabkan I terperlahankan kereta masa nak potong satu kereta ni, kereta kat belakang i punya lah tak sabar nak potong jugak, lane highway untuk dua kereta, terpaksa sumbat tiga kereta. *mengucap*.Tau lah kau bawak BMW, tapi mati ke kalau tunggu kat belakang 10 saat?

Kepada pemandu wanita tegar seperti i diluar sana, jaga keselamatan diri anda ketika memandu, kalau boleh elakkan memandu secara solo. bahaya.

To all male drivers out there, i tau, tak semuanya buat perangai seperti pemandu-pemandu di atas, especially kawan-kawan lelaki i, semuanya pemandu berhemah belaka. But please, respect female drivers sebab kejadian-kejadian tak diingini mungkin boleh berlaku kepada ibu, kakak atau adik perempuan anda.

Renung-renungkanlah. Selamat beramal.

I'm feeling rather gloomy now. I don't know why.

Whenever I feel sad about anything, be it life, love, studies etc, I will keep myself acquainted with this book.

" Jangan Bersedih : Jadilah Wanita Yang Paling Bahagia by Dr 'Aidh Bin Abdullah Al-Qarni "

It's a very informative and eye-opening book filled with Quotes and stories about women in general. On how women should behave, the role of women in Islam, and the guidelines for Muslim women to live a happy life. La Tahzan ( Don't be sad )

A wise man once said, Learning is a humbling experience so.. I learn.

I've been doing a lot of thinking lately. About who I was, who I am and what kind of person i'm becoming. Occasionally, before I go to bed, I will took my time off from everything and everyone, sat down to have a view of myself. Bermuhasabah diri is good to purify your soul.

I learnt a lot of things from this book and one of it was this,

" Perbaiki diri anda maka Allah akan redha terhadap anda"

Improving and changing for the better does take time. It needs courage and determination from within. I tried to fulfill the prayers, avoid the misdeeds, do good to other people, respect the elders and all the good qualities required as a Muslim. I will do my best but I need to do it slowly.

I really admire all the women that have such strong determination to be a good Muslimah, donning the Hijab, and dress modestly and Istiqamah (continuously) doing it. Someday I will, in due time and I am learning to accept the rule, step by step.

Let there be lights for all of us, InsyaAllah :)